There is not any prescribed lifestyle that the saints of God must life. What is required is that we allow ourselves to be led of the Spirit in all that we do. Paul declared that he experienced both abundance and lean times. He learned to be content whether abounding or abased. He was content with whatever the Father chose for him.

Philippians 4:11-13

In 1999 the Father directed me to lave my employment as a computer professional. I had a wife and two young children. We did not live as we had previously, but we never lacked the necessities.

If God finds a willing heart, He will be faithful to guide them in the path He has determined for them.

The model you set forth of taking care of oneself first, family and dependents second, church third and society fourth may have some relevance to it, but we are all called to be surrendered to the leading of the Spirit.

There have been times when I have been led to give money away to another with a more immediate need, when personal bills were looming. Yahweh always makes up the difference. The object is to hear and obey.

May I ask a favor? Could you delve into how those of us with kids and employees who depend upon our ability to provide for them can reconcile our lives with the way of God. I live well, but not extravagantly. I give as much as I can after providing for my family. We don't covet anything but are thankful for everything.

I have never thought, 'til now, that perhaps my life is misdirected. I have thought that taking care of oneself first, family and dependants second, and church third and society fourth is the way we are supposed to prioritize our lives. Are we at odds with Christ by living this way?

SHALOM, SHALOM,
SANDY H.

I should think that the world would work overtime to heap all kinds of subtle and not-so-subtle derision on such a lifestyle (at least nowadays; pity is a kind of derision). I can sense from how you write about it that it's not meant to be prescriptive. Others are called to other things, and there are seasons in life for solo and seasons for fellowship.

Yet I can see how you are the one who who "gets it" and that those of us with mortgages and jobs are the ones in chains.

You are blessed, far more than many realize. I wouldn't consider your accomodations a hardship or discomforting at all. In fact, I would embrace it.

John 13:35,
Joe Riley